Why is This Night More Fun Than All Other Nights?

With Passover quickly approaching most of us are so focused on spring cleaning and menu planning that we often forget about some fun ways to prepare for a family Seder that can be the real highlight of the holiday.  

My children spend weeks in Jewish day school preparing for Passover.  They learn the order of events, scour their classroom cubbies for bread crumbs, and sing every known tune about frogs in Pharoh's bed.  They come ready to the table with their personalized projects and the evening usually culminates with their performance of the Four Questions. Nothing is unexpected.

This year I challenge you to turn the tables.

Instead of sitting back and waiting for them to bring all the excitement to your table, surprise your kids with some fun Seder activities that bring this holiday ritual to life and keep them engaged even after they secure their Afikoman prizes.

These fun Seder ideas will delight your kids with the knowledge that you did more to prepare for commemorating the Exodus from Egypt than grind the apples to make the Charoset:

On My Way Out of Egypt, I Couldn't Live Without My... 

Gather some random items around the house and place them in an old suitcase or funny looking bag.  Make sure the other adults at your table dont see what you have selected. Items you put in the bag can range from obvious to ridiculous; some examples are sunglasses, stuffed animals, band aids, plunger, comic book etc. The prep for this game is particularly fun to do with the kids; they'll love being the ones to select the items and force the adults to do some improv.  

Pass the bag around the table at various points throughout the Seder and have the person who gets it dig in to pull out an unidentified item and quickly come up with a reason to explain why they couldn't leave Egypt without this essential item. The fun of having no idea what object you are going to get and the spontaneity of having to perform in front of your company will no doubt generate big laughs.

Seder Bingo

What better way to capture all the details during the seder than to turn it into a Bingo Game?  My sister ingeniously created this Passover Bingo Board for her website FunInJerusalem and suggests playing it with marshmallows as Bingo markers (reminiscent of the marshmallows our father distributed to us anytime we participated in our childhood seders- while sneaking a few of his own).

Bingo can be played by young and old and include everyone at your seder table. The kids will love competing with their grown relatives and friends.  The board is filled with Passover images that appear throughout the story of the Haggadah, and is a great way to get the kids into it long after the Four Questions are over.

Passover Personalities 20 Questions

A backward version of charades, each person at the seder is cast in the role of a Passover character, but the catch is they don't know who.  Create paper crowns with a card attached to the front facing the crowd so that the table can see the players character even though he cant see it himself.  The player then gets the opportunity to ask 20 questions he can come up with in order to figure out which Passover character he is playing that night.  


Some obvious ones include Pharaoh or Moses, but you can also add some fun ones, like wild animals from the 10 plagues or the wicked child of the Four Sons. Kids love guessing and leading each other with clues to figure out their Passover characters.

Frog Finder
What's the Passover story without a recounting of the frogs that plagued Egypt and found their way into every crevice of Pharoh's palace?  Buy a simple sheet of green stickers such as these circular labels made by Avery and quickly stick them in various hidden and obvious spots all over the house.  Wait until the kids get antsy and announce that the plague of frogs has taken over the house. As the Egyptian clean up crew, they are challenged to see how many frogs they can collect on a plain white sheet of paper.  


The winner with the most frog stickers collected wins some special honor at the table or a replica of Moshe's staff, anything to keep them proud.  This one can go on for quite a while and give them some time to stretch their legs, though the warning of course is that you may find little green frog stickers for months to come depending on how meticulous your little sleuths are.


Most importantly have fun, it's the best way to show your kids how much you care about the day.


What are some of your best Passover Seder hints to liven up the festivities?